We are from the Lac Courte Oreilles Band of Ojibwe in Hayward. We are very familiar with the Menomonie Tribe. Jerry (my husband) has alot of relatives from the Keshena Reservation. I also work with someone from that tribe, her name is Rae Baker (Penass). She said the name Ermatinger is a familiar name down there. She said you may even be related to her family. There are alot of Millers that live on and around the Menomonie Reservation. On May 31st (Memorial Day) we are having a special ceremony up here. It it called "Remembering Our Children". This will be the 2nd Annual. What it consists of is a memorial walk, pot-luck picnic, moment of silence, speakers from different congregations and a balloon release in memory of all children. Anyone is welcome to attend. Last year we decided to try it and were expecting about 100 people to attend and to our astonishment there was approximately 450 to 500 people in attendance. That is one of the reasons we have decided to make it an annual event. It is a time to bring people together. It would be nice if you and your family could make it up here for this event. We have a very nice casino and lodge that would accommendate some of the people who are coming from out of town. One of the special things that we do, is hand out the balloons with markers, so the families of children can write a message to their loved ones and then when we do the balloon release we read the names of the children and as they are read, the balloon are released. We also have tee-shirts available with the childrens names on them or you can design your own and wear it on that day. It would be a pleasure to meet you and your family. You and your family will have a special place within our hearts and souls. May your son soar high along with our 3 children.
Neomi, Jerry & Erin Miller
You are in my thoughts and prayers / Renee Laclaire (cousin of the miller children )
I am so sorry for your loss. I do not have any words of comfort to give you during this difficult time for there really isnt any. I just wanted to say that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. As you know our family has gone through such a sorrowful ordeal with the loss of all three of my cousins. We are all still having a difficult time adjusting to life in this world without them here with us. These memorial sights help especially when people light a candle or offer their condolences because then you know your pain is shared and that your loved one is always remembered. Take comfort in those still around you and hold on to all the beautiful memories and, last but not least, always know that one day we all be together again with those we lost and love...
Happy St. Patrick's Day / Family Of Wm. Scott Myers
First, we would like to send our heartfelt condolences to your family. We know what you are going through. On September 1, 2005 we lost our daughter (Autumn Miller-Jackson) and our youngest son (Michael Miller) to a one vehicle accident just 1/8 of a mile from our home. It's a night that we will never forget. Michael died instantly and Autumn passed away just a few minutes later. As you can see from all their pictures, our children were always close to one another. Then on July 31, 2006 not even a year later, our only other son (Gerald Miller) passed away. Jerry was in such a state of depression after the loss of his brother and sister that he more or less just gave up on everything and his health deteriorated. All we could think of was "why our family". Our daughter left behind a girl (Erin) whom we have full custody of. Erin will be turning 16 in April. On November 25th, 2005 our niece gave birth to a baby boy, who is named after our youngest son Michael Ryan. That little guy is our inspiration. He stays with us almost every evening and almost every weekend. Most people say that in time things get easier, but they never do. The only thing that we can do is take everything one day at a time. We know that when it is our time, our children will be waiting for us and meeting us with open arms. We have lost alot of friends and family over this short period of time, I guess unless they have been through what we have, they will never know the pain. Just remember, your angel and your family will always be in our thoughts and prayers. GOD bless each one of you.
First, we would like to send our heartfelt condolences to your family. We know what you are going through. On September 1, 2005 we lost our daughter (Autumn Miller-Jackson) and our youngest son (Michael Miller) to a one vehicle accident just 1/8 of a mile from our home. It's a night that we will never forget. Michael died instantly and Autumn passed away just a few minutes later. As you can see from all their pictures, our children were always close to one another. Then on July 31, 2006 not even a year later, our only other son (Gerald Miller) passed away. Jerry was in such a state of depression after the loss of his brother and sister that he more or less just gave up on everything and his health deteriorated. All we could think of was "why our family". Our daughter left behind a girl (Erin) whom we have full custody of. Erin will be turning 16 in April. On November 25th, 2005 our niece gave birth to a baby boy, who is named after our youngest son Michael Ryan. That little guy is our inspiration. He stays with us almost every evening and almost every weekend. Most people say that in time things get easier, but they never do. The only thing that we can do is take everything one day at a time. We know that when it is our time, our children will be waiting for us and meeting us with open arms. We have lost alot of friends and family over this short period of time, I guess unless they have been through what we have, they will never know the pain. Just remember, your angel and your family will always be in our thoughts and prayers. GOD bless each one of you.
First, we would like to send our heartfelt condolences to your family. We know what you are going through. On September 1, 2005 we lost our daughter (Autumn Miller-Jackson) and our youngest son (Michael Miller) to a one vehicle accident just 1/8 of a mile from our home. It's a night that we will never forget. Michael died instantly and Autumn passed away just a few minutes later. As you can see from all their pictures, our children were always close to one another. Then on July 31, 2006 not even a year later, our only other son (Gerald Miller) passed away. Jerry was in such a state of depression after the loss of his brother and sister that he more or less just gave up on everything and his health deteriorated. All we could think of was "why our family". Our daughter left behind a girl (Erin) whom we have full custody of. Erin will be turning 16 in April. On November 25th, 2005 our niece gave birth to a baby boy, who is named after our youngest son Michael Ryan. That little guy is our inspiration. He stays with us almost every evening and almost every weekend. Most people say that in time things get easier, but they never do. The only thing that we can do is take everything one day at a time. We know that when it is our time, our children will be waiting for us and meeting us with open arms. We have lost alot of friends and family over this short period of time, I guess unless they have been through what we have, they will never know the pain. Just remember, your angel and your family will always be in our thoughts and prayers. GOD bless each one of you.
To the living, I am gone. To the sorrowful, I will never return. To the angry, I was cheated. To the happy, I am at peace. To the faithful, I have never left. I cannot speak, but I can listen. I cannot be seen but I can be heard. So as you look in awe at a mighty forest and its grand majesty, Remember me. Remember me in your heart, your thoughts, and your memories. Of the times we cried, the times we fought, and the times we laughed. For if you always think of me, I will never have gone.
So thoughtful / Kay Mom Of ^J^ Joshua Delaney (Another grieving MOM )
Patricia, what a wonderful mom John has. I just cried when I saw the picture you created. I love it How could demons, monsters take our babies? Life can seem so unbearable without our sons with us in this life. I consider alcohol and drugs as murderers as well. You grief is newer than mine in that I lost my son almost 3 years now. But the pain it never stops. I have become quite good at hiding it from my other family, including his daughter, my grandbaby. No Patricia you are not alone and if you are ever feeling like the lone stranger or that noone knows what you are going through, please email me . I know only too well and commend you for reaching out and keeping your sons memories alive. I was so angry for so long and when my sons anniversary angel comes I get mad all over. Why do I have to celebrate my sons birthday at the cemetery? My heart goes out to you and your entire family as I know what this does to us all.
sincerest condolences
Kay
I feel your pain / Connie (aunt 2 sammy pepe )
To angel John's family - My heartfelt condolonces for the loss of your precious angel. I was reading John's legacy and much of it reminded me of my brother Domenic. My brother was 22 years old and he too chose the path of self medicating in the early 70's. He too was depressed but did not speak of his depression although we sensed something wasn't right it was the early 70's and nobody knew much about it. My brother chose to end his life on May 1, 1979. Since taking his life my mother has never nor will she ever be the same. On June 21, 2003 my nephew, my godson chose to also end his life at the age of 19. Unlike my brother Sammy did not turn to drugs and from what we all observed was a happy child and a happy teenager. He was going to college, had a parttime job, owned his own car, but he chose to leave us on the first day of summer. My sister (his mother) has never been the same since. My nephew was like my own son to me. I dedicated a website to him and to my brother to keep both of their memories alive. Depression is like a cancer. Some people will beat it and some unfortunately don't. I can only understand as a sister/aunt what the death of a child does to a family through my own observation of my my mother and my sister. I feel the pain in that sense for all the families who have lost a child. John is in heaven and I do believe he has found peace.
May god bless you all and keep you close to his heart.
I don't know how you found my sons website, but thank you for lighing a candle in his honor. I am so sorry to read of the loss of your precious son. The music speaks to my soul. John was so handsome. I know you were blessed to have him for the time you did. This grief journey is so hard and noone understands unless they too have suffered the same loss. I understand your pain. I will visit again and hope you will do the same.
Hugs
Kay
Say Hello To Heaven by: Temple of the Dog / Misty Ermatinger (sister) Please, mother mercy Take me from this place And the long winded curses I keep hearing in my head Words never listen And teachers never learn Now Im warm from the candle But I feel too cold to burn He came from an island And he died from the street He hurt so bad like a soul breaking But he never said nothing to me So say hello to heaven
New like a baby Lost like a prayer The sky was your playground But the cold ground was your bed Poor stargazer Shes got no tears in her eyes Smooth like whisper She knows that love heals all wounds with time Now it seems like too much love Is never enough, you better seek out Another road cause this one has Ended abrupt, say hello to heaven
I never wanted To write these words down for you With the pages of phrases Of things well never do So I blow out the candle, and I put you to bed Since you cant say to me Now how the dogs broke your bone Theres just one thing left to be said Say hello to heaven
Thank you / Melissa Votano (Another mother who lost a child ) John was so handsome. Doug wanted to be a country star. I wanted to thank you for lighting a candle for Doug. I am always amazed how many candles are lit for him. It means so much. Maybe if they had known how many people really give a darn in this world they would have stayed a little longer. I feel the connections being made between my son and others that I speak to in this place of hope. I believe they all hold hands and watch over us and the more we connect the more they protect us. Take care and I'm sure we will meet in the pages again.
I am so sorry Patricia / Katrina Turner (memory of ) Dear Patricia, I am so sorry . Thank you for lighting a candle for Natasha. Natasha suffered Depression from a young age. She also self medicated with drugs and alchol. She tried so hard to get well so many times. I thought she had passed accidently fom drugs or alchol. She didnt. She died from a bacterial infection to her heart. She had been looking very sick and week for a long time ,but never went to the Dr's. They say she probably got the bacteria from a dirty needle. I will never know why she did not go to the Drs as it is so curable. Maybe she thought she was sick from the drugs. Maybe she didnt care. I am finding this hard to accept. I know your pain as a parent with a child who is depressed they will do anything to stop the pain. They cant live with it. Drugs stopped the pain for a while. Its a vicious circle. Hugs to you Katrina
I am so sorry Patricia / Katrina Turner (memory of ) Dear Patricia, I am so sorry . Thank you for lighting a candle for Natasha. Natasha suffered Depression from a young age. She also self medicated with drugs and alchol. She tried so hard to get well so many times. I thought she had passed accidently fom drugs or alchol. She didnt. She died from a bacterial infection to her heart. She had been looking very sick and week for a long time ,but never went to the Dr's. They say she probably got the bacteria from a dirty needle. I will never know why she did not go to the Drs as it is so curable. Maybe she thought she was sick from the drugs. Maybe she didnt care. I am finding this hard to accept. I know your pain as a parent with a child who is depressed they will do anything to stop the pain. They cant live with it. Drugs stopped the pain for a while. Its a vicious circle. Hugs to you Katrina
A Valentine's Tribute / Cheryl Mum To Angel ^Jeremy^ Radford (Connected by Angels )
A Tribute from a loving Mother to her precious Son.
Remembering you John
There's a special place within my heart That only you can fill. For you had my love right from the start And I know you always will.
Happy Valentine's Day
A Valentine's Tribute / Cheryl Mum To Angel ^Jeremy^ Radford (Connected by Angels )
A Tribute from a loving Mother remembering her precious Son.
Remembering You John
There's a special place within my heart That only you can fill. For you had my love right from the start And I know you always will.
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